“I Love You!” What to do?

It is love or Friendship?

If I say "I love you" million times still it won't be enough.

Because I just love you so much.

No one can say how much and can't stop loving you!

In my heart you will always be forever,

forever here or there, near or far,

my love will be wherever you are.....

 He is my good friend. She’s my best confidant. We know each other for few years and shared our meals, happiness, sadness,   feeling that may not shared other one, I can't imagine life without my good friend. But for a while....I've felt jealous of his dates. I've been overprotective of her when she feels bad. I feel lonely in his absents, if I didn’t have a sms when I going to bed, I will not happy that day. In my entire dream she is only one my queen.

If I got her smile, I don’t want to see other flowers, when I hear her voice, no need any music, when we are speaks each other I don’t want anybody else, If he is my friend I don’t need the world!

 In other hand I've been having very strong feelings of attraction and a desire for something more than friendship….

Could it be that your feelings for him/her have grown into something more? If so, your relationship may have developed into a "friend crush".

You don't know what to do. You know you want to continue spending time together- more time. But it's getting hard. You fantasize about having more with this person and are beginning to feel like a jealous would-be partner. Do you pretend everything is the same? Do you start distancing yourself- hoping your feelings will go back to the way they were? Do you actually TALK directly and honestly with your friend about how you feel? 

You need to decide how you want to move forward.. Some people are used to say that Love is possible after friendship, but friendship is not possible after love.  Because medicines work before death later nothing can be cured….!!! In the same time remind it that Heart is like a bottle of perfume. If u never opens it nobody knows the fragrance inside it...So open your mind with your loved one and share your feelings….

 any way  there you have two choices you can hid your desire on her and stay as good friends, if do so you should have to forget all your feelings of love on your good friend.

 And the second option is you can talk directly and honestly with you r friend about how you feel... I think this option is better than first one. Because there is a possibility that they have similar feelings for you and that they were afraid to reveal ie same like you. Therefore choosing this option could result in romance and a love relationship based on true friendship.

Love is one of the central human emotions. We all experience love for someone or something, to varying degrees, at one time or another. Most of the times, when we think of love, it brings a warm, fuzzy, and sometimes naughty feeling – the type that makes us feel that nothing in the world matters, with the exception of our beloved.

It enters the heart and leaves at will, and we don’t have much control over it. While we don’t have control over love, we do possess control over the actions it can lead us to.
In essence, love is good. Be it through meeting, talking, or simply chatting, we must be careful that our love for our beloved doesn’t take us overboard. Love is natural, yet what it can lead to is what’s dangerous.
We may all fall in love one time or the other. The key is to control the love and put the brakes on any potentially unlawful actions it may lead us to, no matter how minor they may seem.

I would like to remind again and again it is true that you should have to control your desire when you are in love with another gender.

May Allah (SW) protect me and all of us from the love that leads to his displeasure!  Ameen.

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