Don't give up

Remember this words

Accept Every victory with a Humble Heart

And

Every Defeat with a Gracious mind

is the best way to live in this world...

Life have to Go On......

Ramadan Kareem

May the spirit of Ramadan illuminate the world and show us the way to peace and harmony n Wishing you all the blessings from Allah and praying for a blessed Ramadan !

Allah says in the Quran:
'O you who believe! Fasting is prescribed for you, even as it was prescribed for those before you, that you may attain God-consciousness. (2:183)

"In the month of Ramadan, the Quran, a book of guidance with proofs of guidance distinguishing right from wrong, was revealed. Therefore, whoever of you is present in that month let him fast. But who is ill or on a journey shall fast a similar number of days later on. Allah desires your well-being, not your discomfort. He desires you to fast the whole month so that you may magnify Him and render thanks to Him for giving you His guidance." 2:185

Accordingly, the month of Ramadan is called the month of the Quran; therefore, Muslims have tradition of reciting Quran frequently in this month.

For what the reason?

Don't make me Cry!

Do you ever feel like sometimes you just wanna be alone & away from everyone ? Just sitting there, thinking, making your own decisions, & maybe shedding tears about your past ? Like what could’ve or should’ve happened if you did this or that ? I know sometimes I say fuck it & move on, but there are certain things that I can’t seem to let go of. And I feel like no matter who I went to, no one ever really understands me. They may act or think they understand, but they have no idea what I’m going through. Honestly, I don’t even know who to talk to or who I can trust anymore. There are so many fake people in this world that it’s so hard to even know who’s real anymore..

“I Love You!” What to do?

It is love or Friendship?

If I say "I love you" million times still it won't be enough.

Because I just love you so much.

No one can say how much and can't stop loving you!

In my heart you will always be forever,

forever here or there, near or far,

my love will be wherever you are.....

 He is my good friend. She’s my best confidant. We know each other for few years and shared our meals, happiness, sadness,   feeling that may not shared other one, I can't imagine life without my good friend. But for a while....I've felt jealous of his dates. I've been overprotective of her when she feels bad. I feel lonely in his absents, if I didn’t have a sms when I going to bed, I will not happy that day. In my entire dream she is only one my queen.

If I got her smile, I don’t want to see other flowers, when I hear her voice, no need any music, when we are speaks each other I don’t want anybody else, If he is my friend I don’t need the world!

 In other hand I've been having very strong feelings of attraction and a desire for something more than friendship….

Could it be that your feelings for him/her have grown into something more? If so, your relationship may have developed into a "friend crush".

You don't know what to do. You know you want to continue spending time together- more time. But it's getting hard. You fantasize about having more with this person and are beginning to feel like a jealous would-be partner. Do you pretend everything is the same? Do you start distancing yourself- hoping your feelings will go back to the way they were? Do you actually TALK directly and honestly with your friend about how you feel? 

You need to decide how you want to move forward.. Some people are used to say that Love is possible after friendship, but friendship is not possible after love.  Because medicines work before death later nothing can be cured….!!! In the same time remind it that Heart is like a bottle of perfume. If u never opens it nobody knows the fragrance inside it...So open your mind with your loved one and share your feelings….

 any way  there you have two choices you can hid your desire on her and stay as good friends, if do so you should have to forget all your feelings of love on your good friend.

 And the second option is you can talk directly and honestly with you r friend about how you feel... I think this option is better than first one. Because there is a possibility that they have similar feelings for you and that they were afraid to reveal ie same like you. Therefore choosing this option could result in romance and a love relationship based on true friendship.

Love is one of the central human emotions. We all experience love for someone or something, to varying degrees, at one time or another. Most of the times, when we think of love, it brings a warm, fuzzy, and sometimes naughty feeling – the type that makes us feel that nothing in the world matters, with the exception of our beloved.

It enters the heart and leaves at will, and we don’t have much control over it. While we don’t have control over love, we do possess control over the actions it can lead us to.
In essence, love is good. Be it through meeting, talking, or simply chatting, we must be careful that our love for our beloved doesn’t take us overboard. Love is natural, yet what it can lead to is what’s dangerous.
We may all fall in love one time or the other. The key is to control the love and put the brakes on any potentially unlawful actions it may lead us to, no matter how minor they may seem.

I would like to remind again and again it is true that you should have to control your desire when you are in love with another gender.

May Allah (SW) protect me and all of us from the love that leads to his displeasure!  Ameen.

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